Law of Attraction: Why You Keep Crashing into the Same Old Walls

Law of Attraction is a universal and exact feedback system.  Affirm and intend all you want – but LoA is always reflecting back your predominant beliefs. No matter how hard you work to change them.

That’s why you can set intentions and vow to change an unproductive pattern in your business or life – yet crash into the same old walls time and time again.  Years of Law of Attraction exercises and other techniques won’t necessarily change a thing…

Now for the good news:   I am NOT saying that change is impossible!  It is absolutely within our power to create lives that fully express the best of who we are.  We are divinely engineered with the ability to receive what we desire, regardless of our walls.

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The problem isn’t that we’re stuck in the same old patterns, hitting the same old walls, with no hope of ever experiencing anything different. If that were true you’d just be wasting your time learning about the Law of Attraction.

“Stuck forever in the same old patterns” is definitely NOT the truth of you.

What keeps you and nearly everyone else stuck is:  you misinterpret the nature of the wall you keep crashing into. You think the wall is something you need to fight against or get rid of, and once it’s out of your life, you will thrive and receive everything you want.

But you’ve never been successful at fighting or getting rid of the wall – and you won’t ever be – because trying to do so keeps you in resistance – which only strengthens the wall.  Darn!

The truth is: whenever you set a new intention and – WHAM – the same old miserable pattern shows up to taunt you, you are being called to change your response to the wall.

You don’t have to get rid of the wall, and you can’t anyway.  You only have to change how you respond to it.

It’s easy – once you understand why the wall keeps coming back in spite of your best efforts – and you master the simple response that changes everything.

Guy Finley, one of the most enlightened teachers of our time, can help you discover how to “walk through walls.” Read his words here

You can end the repetitive patterns that seem to prevent you from receiving what you are meant to have. Find out the truth here

 

Abraham-Hicks: The Path of Least Resistance

How practiced are you at following your path of least resistance? Abraham has been talking about this path for a while now.

Because we live way more complex lives than our parents and grandparents, it’s easy to buy into the idea that much of life is supposed to be complicated. But if we take the path of least resistance, life might be about…

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What Is Resistance?

You can tell you’re in a state of resistance because you feel negative emotion about something. Feelings, as Abraham has been teaching us for decades, are your emotional guidance system at work. Positive feelings indicate we’re in the flow, which Abraham also calls “allowing.” Negative feelings indicate we’re blocking the flow, called “resisting.”

What are we resisting? Oh only all the good the universe has lined up for us in response to our decisions and desires over lifetimes. Sure some good stuff can squeak by the barrier of our negativity and get in. But it’s rare to meet anyone who lives in a continual, easy flow of receiving.  Most of us are too busy focusing on what’s wrong.

How can we get on the path of least resistance?

We have to use the emotional guidance system we were born with. We need to be aware of our feelings and refuse to tolerate the negative ones for too long.

I don’t mean to ignore negative emotion.

We need to acknowledge negative feelings first – because they are authentic indicators of something unwanted –  and then 1) clarify what it is we do want, 2) turn the situation over to the universe, 3) choose better-feeling emotions and 4) chill out and allow ourselves to feel good.

Then we have dealt with the negativity in a conscious way and chosen the path of least resistance.

But in our culture, letting go and chilling out is a real challenge. When stressed out or upset, we’re encouraged to suck it up and power through – techniques that push the negative emotion under the surface (for a while) but don’t heal it or shift our vibrational point of attraction.

In business we need to make more decisions that allow us to feel good.

Years ago I had a coaching client who claimed to want conscious cooperation with the Law of Attraction in her business (and more income). On the surface she sounded clear and willing. But she also had some very old patterns of resentment.  I recognized this but, feeling heroic, decided to work with her anyway.

For several months I worked really hard to help her release resentment and begin to allow in her good from the universe. Our sessions ran overtime, we exchanged long emails nearly every day, and I added in some bonus sessions so we would have more time to help her shift some old patterns.

As you can probably guess: it completely backfired. I was doing all the work and she was refusing to budge from her stance that the universe owed her. In a few months she quit coaching, and I felt hugely relieved.

It was a great learning for a relatively inexperienced coach. These days  I pay unflinching attention when my emotional guidance system says: stay away. As a result my clients are all lovely and amazing people!

If you have clients who exhaust you, you have 3 choices to let go of your resistance:

1. Let them know exactly what they have to do if they want to continue working with you.

2. Fire them.

3. Train yourself to take care of yourself as best you can and decide you will feel peaceful about the situation, drop the blame and take responsibility for your own feelings.

Which choice could you decide to make?

The sigh of relief that comes from a clear decision is, according to Abraham, a sign you have released your habit of resistance, placing you instantly on the path of least resistance and allowing in your good. Enjoy!

Related posts:

Releasing Resistance: The Abraham-Hicks Art of Allowing

Law of Attraction, Resistance and The Flip

Law of Attraction and Your Block to Creating Miracles

OK so you’d love to figure out enough about Law of Attraction to guarantee you can create miracles on demand.  I get it – and it sounds fabulous to me too.

And I also know why it’s probably not happening for you.

Are you ready to know?  Here’s the truth:

You’re trying way too hard.  (See I know you, I really do. Hand me that mirror, would you?)

The reason you’re trying too hard is: you think you have to figure something out.

But you don’t!

You’ve forgotten this advice from Abraham-Hicks: Continue Reading »

Spiritual Entrepreneur: Re-ignite Your Business Passion

Feeling bored with your business?

It happens.

Most spiritual entrepreneurs experience great passion for their businesses in the early stages of launching and growing them.  We’re fueled by our inspiration and drive to help others, and we’re learning something new every day. It can be stressful – but never dull.

Later on boredom can set in. Though we might feel more comfortable with our businesses, they’re just not as exciting as they used to be.

We can tell ourselves this is “normal” … and it certainly is common… but does labeling boredom as normal make it OK? I don’t think so.

Because what we’d really, deeply love is to return to the passion.

Here’s how: Continue Reading »

Stop Worrying about Your “Blocks to Abundance” and Do This

Do you have “blocks to abundance” that keep you doubting the Law of Attraction?  Of course you do! It’s not possible to live in a culture that constantly broadcasts messages of scarcity without picking up the belief in the opposite of abundance: scarcity.

Once you have the believe in scarcity, it’s  going to manifest, on one level or another. For many business owners scarcity manifests around success and money, but we can also feel scarcity around  health, love, and anything else we believe we lack.

The damaging part about a belief in scarcity over abundance is not that you have this belief. Seriously.

What really messes things up is:  Continue Reading »

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