Abraham-Hicks: Stop Practicing the Absence of What You Want

When what you truly want is missing in your life or business, it’s only because you’ve been practicing the absence of what you want.  Your thoughts and emotions have focused on what’s not here…. and “not here” continues to manifest.

We truly don’t realize how powerful our thoughts are. We expect the universe to deliver what we want – even if all we think about is the lack of what we want: clients, money, success, etc.

Our thoughts are expressions of our consciousness, and consciousness is the creative force of the universe.  The Law of Attraction teaches us about becoming  more conscious – not about Continue Reading »

Spiritual Entrepreneur: Access the Source of True Security

What’s your definition of true security ? Is it primarily about a certain amount of money in the bank or the value of assets you own?

Nearly everyone believes that security primarily has to do with having enough money. And that the answer to many problems in life is: more money.

I no longer believe that.

In a recent coaching conversation, an elite financial adviser and spiritual entrepreneur confided in me that he would feel secure only on reaching his goal of $100 million a year in assets under management. I believe that would earn him $1 million a year in management fees.

I’m all for solopreneurs bringing in 7 figure incomes.  But would that necessarily provide security?

After 20+ years as a self employed solopreneur I’ve gradually realized that money fears are nearly Continue Reading »

Spiritual Entrepreneur: Why You Should Make Customers Less Important

Do you make your customers the highest priority in your business? Most small business experts would say that’s a good thing. But beware: it can become much too easy to make pleasing customers more important than pleasing yourself.

Because many spiritual entrepreneurs are at least a little bit co-dependent, we have a tendency to really want to please our customers.  In general this is a good thing. Customers who are pleased with us are usually easier and more delightful to serve than the cranky ones.

But problems can arise when we get stressed out from our continual pleasing of others at the expense of taking care of ourselves.

Being stressed out and too often putting your customers’  needs ahead of yours may look like: Continue Reading »

Law of Attraction: Why You Keep Crashing into the Same Old Walls

Law of Attraction is a universal and exact feedback system.  Affirm and intend all you want – but LoA is always reflecting back your predominant beliefs. No matter how hard you work to change them.

That’s why you can set intentions and vow to change an unproductive pattern in your business or life – yet crash into the same old walls time and time again.  Years of Law of Attraction exercises and other techniques won’t necessarily change a thing…

Now for the good news:   I am NOT saying that change is impossible!  It is absolutely within our power to create lives that fully express the best of who we are.  We are divinely engineered with the ability to receive what we desire, regardless of our walls.


The problem isn’t that we’re stuck in the same old patterns, hitting the same old walls, with no hope of ever experiencing anything different. If that were true you’d just be wasting your time learning about the Law of Attraction.

“Stuck forever in the same old patterns” is definitely NOT the truth of you.

What keeps you and nearly everyone else stuck is:  you misinterpret the nature of the wall you keep crashing into. You think the wall is something you need to fight against or get rid of, and once it’s out of your life, you will thrive and receive everything you want.

But you’ve never been successful at fighting or getting rid of the wall – and you won’t ever be – because trying to do so keeps you in resistance – which only strengthens the wall.  Darn!

The truth is: whenever you set a new intention and – WHAM – the same old miserable pattern shows up to taunt you, you are being called to change your response to the wall.

You don’t have to get rid of the wall, and you can’t anyway.  You only have to change how you respond to it.

It’s easy – once you understand why the wall keeps coming back in spite of your best efforts – and you master the simple response that changes everything.

Guy Finley, one of the most enlightened teachers of our time, can help you discover how to “walk through walls.” Read his words here

You can end the repetitive patterns that seem to prevent you from receiving what you are meant to have. Find out the truth here


Abraham-Hicks: The Path of Least Resistance

How practiced are you at following your path of least resistance? Abraham has been talking about this path for a while now.

Because we live way more complex lives than our parents and grandparents, it’s easy to buy into the idea that much of life is supposed to be complicated. But if we take the path of least resistance, life might be about…


What Is Resistance?

You can tell you’re in a state of resistance because you feel negative emotion about something. Feelings, as Abraham has been teaching us for decades, are your emotional guidance system at work. Positive feelings indicate we’re in the flow, which Abraham also calls “allowing.” Negative feelings indicate we’re blocking the flow, called “resisting.”

What are we resisting? Oh only all the good the universe has lined up for us in response to our decisions and desires over lifetimes. Sure some good stuff can squeak by the barrier of our negativity and get in. But it’s rare to meet anyone who lives in a continual, easy flow of receiving.  Most of us are too busy focusing on what’s wrong.

How can we get on the path of least resistance?

We have to use the emotional guidance system we were born with. We need to be aware of our feelings and refuse to tolerate the negative ones for too long.

I don’t mean to ignore negative emotion.

We need to acknowledge negative feelings first – because they are authentic indicators of something unwanted –  and then 1) clarify what it is we do want, 2) turn the situation over to the universe, 3) choose better-feeling emotions and 4) chill out and allow ourselves to feel good.

Then we have dealt with the negativity in a conscious way and chosen the path of least resistance.

But in our culture, letting go and chilling out is a real challenge. When stressed out or upset, we’re encouraged to suck it up and power through – techniques that push the negative emotion under the surface (for a while) but don’t heal it or shift our vibrational point of attraction.

In business we need to make more decisions that allow us to feel good.

Years ago I had a coaching client who claimed to want conscious cooperation with the Law of Attraction in her business (and more income). On the surface she sounded clear and willing. But she also had some very old patterns of resentment.  I recognized this but, feeling heroic, decided to work with her anyway.

For several months I worked really hard to help her release resentment and begin to allow in her good from the universe. Our sessions ran overtime, we exchanged long emails nearly every day, and I added in some bonus sessions so we would have more time to help her shift some old patterns.

As you can probably guess: it completely backfired. I was doing all the work and she was refusing to budge from her stance that the universe owed her. In a few months she quit coaching, and I felt hugely relieved.

It was a great learning for a relatively inexperienced coach. These days  I pay unflinching attention when my emotional guidance system says: stay away. As a result my clients are all lovely and amazing people!

If you have clients who exhaust you, you have 3 choices to let go of your resistance:

1. Let them know exactly what they have to do if they want to continue working with you.

2. Fire them.

3. Train yourself to take care of yourself as best you can and decide you will feel peaceful about the situation, drop the blame and take responsibility for your own feelings.

Which choice could you decide to make?

The sigh of relief that comes from a clear decision is, according to Abraham, a sign you have released your habit of resistance, placing you instantly on the path of least resistance and allowing in your good. Enjoy!

Related posts:

Releasing Resistance: The Abraham-Hicks Art of Allowing

Law of Attraction, Resistance and The Flip

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